emmanuel darbo - black man scam on blacksingles.com & yahoo IM

Was approached on black singles.com received personl info there invited to IM on yahoo and did we exchanged photos on yahoo.com said he wanted to come to where I live in Iowa and visit over valentines day said was sending flowers to me wanted to meet in public place...said he has a 14yr son & mother in Africa with church doin missionary work...said seeking a wife lost his wife in car accident with his brother in law said lives in farmington NM for 12 yrs.